The Christmas story now switches to the book of Matthew for more details about Mary’s engagement to Joseph. The author Matthew was originally a tax collector, an occupation that was considered the lowest class of sinners in those days. Yet Jesus dines with him and his rebellious group of friends in his home, an act that would have been improper to be associated with such sinners. After the dinner party with Jesus, Matthew gives up everything to follow Jesus and becomes one of his twelve disciples.
In the beginning of the book of Matthew, he lists the genealogy from Abraham to King David, and from David to the Babylonian exile, and from the exile to Joseph, the husband of Mary. Joseph was a legal heir to the throne through King David’s son Solomon but neither he nor his children could be the biological heir because of his ancestor Jehoiakim’s curse from God. The curse states that because of Jehoiakim’s evil ways, none of his descendants would ever sit on the throne. Now, Joseph is told the news that Mary is carrying a holy child. Joseph’s story is certainly no small detail in this Christmas story.
We are not told exactly how Mary told Joseph, but Matthew does give us an account. Can you imagine how that conversation went?
“This is how the birth of Jesus the Messiah came about: His mother Mary was pledged to be married to Joseph, but before they came together, she was found to be pregnant through the Holy Spirit. Because Joseph her husband was faithful to the law, and yet did not want to expose her to public disgrace, he had in mind to divorce her quietly.”
Joseph could have had Mary stoned and saved his own reputation by making a public example of her. Joseph was a carpenter by trade, and this might possibly have affected his business too. Mary, knowing the possibilities that awaited her, still continued on. Joseph must have been a man of great restraint, mercy and humility. He was chosen by God to be Jesus’ earthly father, to provide for him and protect him. What an honor. That was no insignificant thing.
May you reach out to our Heavenly Father, who shows us the way for mercy, love and unending forgiveness.
* Merry Christmas *